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Facebook housing group questions, answered
Answers from the moderators of 775+ Facebook housing groups with 3.6 million members, on joining, posting and getting the most out of the groups.
The long read: How Facebook Housing Groups Work
What is a Facebook housing group?
A Facebook housing group is a community where people in one city, campus or town post rooms, apartments, sublets and roommate searches, and others reply to them directly. It works like a local listings board run by the group's admins and moderators. It is usually free to use, and you deal with the person posting rather than a website.
Full answerHow do I find Facebook housing groups for my city?
Search Facebook for your city or neighborhood plus words like housing, apartments, rooms or sublets, then open the Groups tab of the results. Pick groups that are active, specific to that area and clearly moderated. Check the housing groups of nearby colleges too, since students and young professionals post there often.
Full answerDo I have to pay to join or post in a Facebook housing group?
No. Joining, browsing and posting in a Facebook housing group should be free. Some groups offer optional paid extras, such as faster post review or a pinned post, but nobody should charge you to join the group, to see listings or to get a landlord's contact details.
Full answerWhy is my request to join a housing group still pending?
Your request is pending because a moderator has not reviewed it yet. Busy housing groups get many requests, and moderators check profiles by hand before approving them. A long wait usually means a long queue, not a problem, though skipped membership questions or a profile that shows nothing can slow things down.
Full answerWhy was my request to join a Facebook housing group declined?
Join requests are usually declined because the profile looks new, empty or fake, the membership questions were skipped, or the account has joined many housing groups in different cities. Moderators decline these because scam accounts look exactly like that. Fixing your profile and answering the questions properly often gets you in on a later try.
Full answerHow should I answer the membership questions when joining a housing group?
Answer every question honestly and specifically: say whether you are looking for a place or offering one, which area, and when. Short, real answers like 'Looking for a room near downtown from August' get approved far more often than blank answers, a one-word 'yes', or text copied from another group.
Full answerHow many housing groups should I join at once?
Join a handful of groups for the area you're actually searching, usually two to five. Joining dozens of housing groups, especially across different cities, looks like a scam account to moderators and can get your requests declined. A few active, well-moderated local groups will show you most of what gets posted in that market.
Full answerCan I join a housing group for a city I don't live in yet?
Yes. Most people join a city's housing groups before they move, and moderators expect it. Say in your membership answers that you're relocating, when, and why, such as a new job or a school program. That context is often what gets an out-of-town profile approved rather than mistaken for a scam account.
Full answerWhy is my post still pending in a Facebook housing group?
Your post is pending because the group reviews every post before it appears, and a moderator hasn't reached yours yet. In busy groups the regular queue can take a while, especially at peak moving times. Pending is not declined. The post is still waiting, and deleting and reposting it won't speed things up.
Full answerWhy was my post declined in a housing group?
Posts are usually declined for missing basics such as price, location or dates, for being copied into many groups, for asking for money before a viewing, for being off-topic, or for wording that breaks group or fair housing rules. A declined post isn't a ban. Fix the problem and post again.
Full answerHow do I check on, edit or delete a post I submitted to a group?
Open the group and find the section for your own content, where Facebook lists your pending, published and declined posts. From there you can open a post and use its menu to edit or delete it. Edit rather than delete when something needs fixing, because deleting and resubmitting sends the post back through review.
Full answerWhat rules do Facebook housing groups usually have?
Most housing groups allow only housing posts for their area, require a price, location and dates, ban duplicate and cross-city posts, forbid asking for money before a viewing, and require respectful, non-discriminatory wording. Many also limit how often you can post. A group's exact rules are in its About section or a pinned post.
Full answerWhat do ISO, LF, BR and other abbreviations in housing posts mean?
ISO means 'in search of' and LF means 'looking for', both used by people seeking a place. BR is bedroom and BA is bathroom, so 2BR/1BA means two bedrooms and one bathroom. Other common ones are MTM for month-to-month, OBO for 'or best offer', and 'utils incl.' for utilities included in the rent.
Full answerHow do I search for listings inside a Facebook housing group?
Open the group and use the magnifying glass inside it, not Facebook's main search bar, then type a neighborhood, street, price or a word like 'studio' or 'sublet'. Where the option appears, filter or sort results to show recent posts first, because older listings in busy housing groups are usually already taken.
Full answerHow do I get notified when someone posts in a housing group?
Open the group, find its notification settings (a bell icon or the Joined menu), and switch from Highlights to All posts. Facebook will then notify you about every new post in that group. Turn this on only for the one or two groups you're actively searching, or the alerts will bury the ones that matter.
Full answerWhy hasn't the person who posted a listing replied to my message?
Often they haven't seen it. Messages from people who aren't Facebook friends go to message requests, which many people rarely check. Popular listings also get dozens of replies, and posters tend to answer the most complete ones first. Comment on the post so they know to look, and send one clear follow-up after a day or two.
Full answerIs Facebook Marketplace or a housing group better for finding a rental?
Use both. Housing groups tend to have more rooms, sublets, lease takeovers and roommate searches, while Marketplace leans toward whole apartments and listings from property managers. Moderated groups have people review each post before it appears. Marketplace listings rely on automated checks instead, so screen them at least as carefully.
Full answerWhat's the difference between a private and a public housing group?
In a public group, anyone, even people not on Facebook, can see the posts and comments. In a private group, only approved members can see posts and who else belongs. Many housing groups are private, which keeps listings and conversations away from scrapers and limits who can see and contact posters.
Full answerWho runs Facebook housing groups? Are they part of Facebook?
Facebook housing groups are run by their own admins and moderators, not by Facebook. Anyone can create a group, so admins range from a single student to a team managing many groups. Facebook sets platform-wide rules and handles reports that break them, but each group's admins decide who joins, what gets posted and what is removed.
Full answerHow does Housing Rocket moderate its housing groups?
Housing Rocket moderators review each member's profile before approving them and review every post before it appears. They remove spam, posts duplicated across many cities and listings that ask for money before a viewing, and decline posts missing price, location or dates. Members can report posts, and moderators review those reports.
Full answerHow do I report a suspicious post or member in a housing group?
Tap the three dots on the post, choose the option to report it, and pick the reason that fits, such as a scam or fake listing. In a group you can usually send the report to the group's admins as well as to Facebook. For someone who messaged you directly, report their profile or the conversation from Messenger.
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Should I comment on a housing post or message the poster directly?
Do both. Leave a short comment such as 'Interested, sent you a message', then send a private message with your details. The comment tells the poster to check their message requests, where messages from people who aren't their Facebook friends often sit unseen. Keep contact details, like your phone number, in the private message.
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